THE PROBABILITY OF STAYING ANGRY

THE PROBABILITY OF STAYING ANGRY
Okay, Okay....You wanna know "where in the world is he coming from"? Well...My Grand Father made a speach at my Thanksgiving Family Dinner. We all had to stand up and tell the entire family one by one, just what we had to thank the lord for the most this past year. When it came around to me about a million things came into mind....Of course I spoke on the obvious, but one particular thought lingered. Meeting a "special Lady". My eyes started to water. and I got a lump in my throat. (You know that a female is'nt just another girl you met when she stays on your mind constantly)...Anyway I began telling my Family what I was most thankful for & my mention of meeting her surprised everyone, especialy my oldest son!
This really made me start to think even harder about some of the negative thoughts & emotions I had waisted trying to stay mad at the people I Love! I think that its simply "Human Nature" to get upset at someone you care about deeply whenever they dissapoint you. But If you stop & really think it thru THE PROBABILITY OF STAYING ANGRY is'nt very high; and so It's kind of a waisted emotion if you consider that Youre not going to stay angry but for so long! You may not ever forgive them for their indescretion (whatever it may have been) or you may never forget what transpired between the two of you, but sooner or later if you really love them the strenght that it took to push them away will fade & you will find yourself wanting them back & wanting to reconcile...I mean just think about this 4 a moment...If your child or children ie. a family member piss you off & you put them out! "Where are they going"? Its almost like "Chopping of youre Own Nose to Spite youre Face"! People come & people go, but your family isnt ever going to go anywhere! You know I can choose & change every friend I have...but I cant't change or choose my parents or the chidren I have. My woman to me is just like that "Family" and I cant stay mad at her for long!
The holiday seasons is a time for Love & understanding. I hope that you can see past the devil and his evil ways and reach out and connect with either your Parents, Siblings, Children, or a Lover you really need to be a part of your life! I have a guy friend of mine who illed...he did wrong & he knows he did wrong, but I reached out & made an effort to forgive him. If he returns the favor, we will continue to be "Partners" if he doesnt...Well Its his loss! Finding a friend like "Me" will be his misfortune...The sucsess rate will be just like the probability of staying angry***